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I've been a sub for over twenty years in grades K-12 in all subjects. There is no one set way to work with any group. You do have dos and don'ts though. It seems from your original post that you already
(1) You have to keep a watchful eye on the class and the less talking you do the better. You can't be two places at once. Always stand in the doorway with one eye on the rest of the kids. (2) These trouble-makers know that if they engage you in an argument, they can easily get the upper hand. They want to distract you from the real issue(s) and they also want to get you emotionally off-balance. When we are angry or upset we don't always think clearly or quickly. So, don't get sucked in. Once they get you angry or distracted they, and not you, are the one that is in control. They could care less why you are doing what you are doing. And, they know full well what they did was wrong no matter what they may say. It's all about distraction and emotional control. Some kids are masters of manipulation. Just watch Nanny 911 some night of FOX. The biggest do is do teach and do structure even their free time. I found the best thing to do is to minimize free time and group work; especially in middle school. It's not a hard and fast rule but it makes for less problems in the long run. It depends on what you are willing to put up with on any given day and how the kids respond to you. Some kids can work and play co-operatively and some can't. At the end of the day, if you have free time then take them out for free play (Some schools don't like this so check first.) or play silent ball or another structured silent activity like heads-up-seven-up. Kids can get crazy, yelling and cheering each other on and it can make the teacher next door nuts. If you are in a portable, then noise isn't usually, an issue. Carol
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