Keeping the right perspective

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Keeping the right perspective
By Connie

Hi,

I think some of the responses hit a nerve with me. Teaching seems to be one of those professions that can absolutely suck the life out of a person. We need to be so many things to everyone and give of our time in
the evenings and on weekends. I don't think this is the right attitude for any profession!
I work in a very small town and am an "outsider" so my chances of being really accepted are quite small. The advantages of living in another community for my children and husband far outweigh the advantages of living under a microscope. I don't go out socializing with the party crowd, but

go to the major events each year. I eat with a small group of positive teachers in my room, but we invite others to join us. The "lounge" is used by parents and their preschoolers during our lunch hour, so I don't eat there.

I wish we could just all do what is right for our own lives, have a separate adult life outside of school and not be criticized for not attending PTO/PTA meetings. I really work hard at staying away from those women! I look at myself as fighting for the vast majority of parents who trust us and don't try to interfere with meddling. Sorry if this offends you, but when I see a PTO lady serving a school where her children no longer attend, then I know she is serving with the right heart!

I try to contribute to my school in my areas of strength, but have learned to say "no" to many things. Years of serving on worthless committees has taught me some wisdom. I've also seen teachers retire and be forgotten within one month.

I wish you all a good life not having to worry about teaching 24/7! Work in an excellent way while you are there and get a good life outside of teaching.

Connie