I really don't think that we are that far off in our views. All I am saying is that it is easy to get angry over every little thing, but what is the point? Are these people who are betraying you worth the grief? For those
of you who feel their blood pressure rise after reading a post from me, I ask, why do you CHOOSE to let things bother you? Why not take the time to step back and think, "that person is different from me, I need to agree to disagree or try to see his/her perspective."
I too used to get angry over every person who betrayed me. I have found that it is easier to make friends outside
of work. That does not mean I am not close with coworkers. I just think that coworkers should be coworkers and friends should be friends. I know that teaching takes up so much time that it is easy to make a life of it. The fact is it should not be your life. You need to get away. Meet people outside of work. Remember it is a job.
