This is a very tricky conversation.

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This is a very tricky conversation.
By musicbug

How I don't envy you position. I was a young teacher when I faced this one. Frist be sure admin will be meeting with you and the parents. Bring your evidence( student work and also a comparison to what an average child in
the grade level is able to do. Names cut off ,of course) and any informal/ formal observations you may have made. You might also suggest they seek an educational psychologist to further investigate what is going on.

The parents will want to know how dropping the child a grade level will effect her. Will it help the situation, how? Will it be difficult for the child sociallly? Use

care if you mention a switch to public education, as you don't want to sound like you wish to be rid of the child.

Kindness, concern for the child's best interest and the parents' feelings are key. If they know you are working for their child, they will want to work with you. The shock ( if it is one ), the sadness ,and frustration maybe transfered on to you, hence why an administrator might be helpful.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you face this.